Are you Expecting More than You Give?
Do you or someone you know want more than you’re willing to give? This might sound crazy but there are many people ‘out there’ who expect an A+ quality of life but perform at a D to a C level daily. Truth is stranger than fiction and I get to witness the truth of this saying in my work as a coach.
I want to be a certified fitness professional… but I’m too busy to go to school. This is what i heard from a young many in his mid-to late twenties just a day ago. I wasn’t surprise. I witness this attitude in many people on a regular basis. They want a lot but don’t want to give a lot to get it. John Maxwell summed this up beautifully, ‘you have to give up in order to move up” This is the process of getting anything you want.
Want the moon and the stars… but don’t want to put in the effort required? You need a reality check.Someone needs to help you get S.M.A.R.T.E about what you say you want and expect and the reality of what you are actually doing. This is how you get a realistic handle on who you really are when no one is watching. In other words, you get to learn about your character.
What do you really want? What do you feel is your next logical step? IDARE helps you answer these two questions which are critical to helping you get your moon and stars. IDARE is designed to help you get S.M.A.R.T.E about what you want and are willing to do. Read my previous post Letting go is easier with IDARE to learn how to use this powerful 5-step process to get more of what you want in your life.
How S.M.A.R.T.E are your goals? IDARE is designed to help you be Specific about what you want. Figure out how to Measure your progress toward getting what you want. Assess the processes in place and the Actions you will need to take to get what you want. IDARE also helps you identify the results you want while challenging you on just how realistic your goals are. IDARE gets you to put a Time-line to achieving what you say you want and finally it helps you Evaluate the steps along the way.
Everything in life is a process-everything! The key to getting more is finding out the process that is attached to getting more of what you desire. Once you figure out this process which IDARE is designed to help you do- you will be best suited to endure it and this is key in achieving your desired outcomes.